The Inconvenience of Human Interactions
Our lifelong lesson, is more than figuring meanings within selves. The human we’ve met, the human we are actively working to keep, the human we wish to unmet are knotted with so much…complexities. There seems to be no going back once you realized just now complex, fragile, beautiful, vulnerable and dependent we are towards each other to regulate our emotions, feelings, and life experiences.
The truth is we are all deeply flawed, we should know that by now. When seen upclose and personal, there is great amount of wrongness in everyone. With that, we are sure to bring certain chaos into other people’s lives. New friendship or partnership is often exciting because it is founded on the ground of ignorance. We are especially hellish towards our most intimate interactions simply because there is enough time spent together to be introduced to the full range of human inadequacies. Our hellishness relates to the pain and suffering we have experienced, bad and unwise habits, naturally born psychological traits; or most of the time, our hellishness is made in childhood. For example, if one has an avoidant personality, it is likely a result from early childhood’s unbearable disappointment. If one tends to be nervous around social status, the childhood was likely to occupied with succession, bankrupcies or economic worries that were supposedly parents’. Rootedness in childhood makes…
